

You have already taken the first steps by recognizing the porn addiction and learning more about
its cause and effect. Can there be healing? Can you keep the marriage/relationship together?
Absolutely. Is there a lot of work to be done? Absolutely.
First, make a commitment to change. If you continue to do what you did yesterday, you will get
yesterday's results.
Decide how you will get help and support.
- Read more about porn addiction and the healing process through our recommended reading
list. All books can be ordered confidentially through Amazon.com.
- If you belong to a church, consider seeking assistance and support there. There are more
couples facing this epidemic than you realize.
- Seek professional help from a therapist. This could be individual therapy or couples
therapy. You can find one through the health care providers directory provided by your
insurance company or through online or yellow page directories.
- Depending on the background of your relationship, you may want to consider joining a 12-
step program
No matter which course of support and healing you choose, please know that:
- This is about him, not you. You did not drive him to the computer. He made his own
decisions and his resulting addiction.
- Respect his need for privacy as well as yours. There is a great deal of shame and secrecy
with a sexual addiction. There is a sexual stigma in our society that is hard to overcome.
Family members and close friends may not be your best advocates.
- Only through calm, open, honest and frank discussion will there be a platform for
rebuilding trust. Let him know how his addiction has affected you and your family.
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