Relationship Rescue for Wives and Girlfriends of
Internet Pornography Addicts
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This site is for informational purposes and is not meant to be a substitute for professional counseling.


Clean It Up



Get your husband or boyfriend to clean up his environment. If he is unwilling, do it yourself. That
means clearing out the PC history, cookies, hidden files, Internet service to iphones, adult channel
access on cable TV, DVDs, magazines, thumbdrives, PlayStation 2, etc.

You wouldn't keep brownies around the house if you are on a diet. Don't allow porn to be around the
house if he is having a rough day and is feeling a trigger moment.
Dig Into the Topic of Porn
Addiction

Is it a fun topic to read up on? No. But it will be necessary for you to do so.
The more you learn about this rampant epidemic, the greater the
understanding you will have about his and your challenges over the days and
weeks ahead.


Much of the healing for yourself will come through the knowledge you gain on
your husband or boyfriend’s struggles. You will begin to see from an
unemotional perspective how the addiction shaped itself in your loved one.
Eventually, you will be able to interact with your husband or boyfriend from a
place of firm love rather than fear or anger. You will gain insight into why
your he reacts and responds in irrational ways, learn to identify his cycle of
shame, and through such knowledge protect yourself emotionally, knowing
you are not to blame for his self-centered addiction.
Where can you go?




We have featured experts on porn addiction and articles that rotate on a
monthly basis.

Knowledge is power. There are books available on this difficult topic of
pornography addiction that can be ordered discreetly through Amazon.com.

There are a lot of additional pornography addiction resources on the web.
Some of the products and services may be of interest to you. Others may not
be relevant. It's worth checking out to see what is out there that may be
useful to you.

PAH also has an active discussion board frequented by women walking the
same path. It is helpful to share stories and learn from each other.